A Friend's Friend

Okay lah.. since im free now and im lazy to pack

Dont want to blog about emotional posts but im lazy to upload pics of outings

So let me blog about a friend's friend

Just another random post, no offence :) 

This friend's friend, 

Even before knowing him, i hv ad heard a lot about him

Cz of a comment he posted which made all of us notice him

And became topic of discussion among diff gangs of friends

Geng leh XD

First time meeting him, is cz he's kind enuf to fetch us frm Bandar Tasik Selatan back to Bukit Serdang after Bali trip

He was said to be super free

The second time meeting him, was when i become light bulb on a movie date with them

He booked a 2+1 seat but instead of me taking the 1 seat he was forced to take it

I felt so uneasy, cz i didnt know if he minded sitting alone, since he was the one who fetched us there

 I didnt know when, he became my fren on fb.

One thing i noticed about him is that,

He has even more thoughts than me.

And i thought i think a lot, but he definitely beat me to it.

He puts his friends above himself,

He thinks of them and their needs before his

I wanted to ask him, is it worth it? 

Being kind to friends and being taken advantage of, are two different kind of things.

Being free, and being kind enough to commit, are two different kind of things.

I know of instances when they are not appreciated, but i cant say anything.

Once in a while is alright, but there should be a baseline.
You're there for them, but wil they be there for you?
I know you cant calculate this way, but if its me, i cant help but think

Say no when you have to. 

Its alright to say no, dont let people treat you as their option instead of a friend.

Thinking too much. Let me share my conclusion.

Thinking too much, gets you no where unless you're willing to work for a change

Its your choice, to find a chance, for a change

Thinking too much about the past, cant change anything

Past is past, why stay in the past when the future is ahead? 

Learn from the past, but do not stay in the past.

Learning, and staying, make a big difference

And its your decision to whether fight for it, or take the alternative.

IF you have chosen not to fight for it, then dont regret bcz it was ur choice.

If you have fought for it, but still lost, then think of its worth.

Whether you should continue fighting, or retreat and start life afresh.

Either ways, you are doing something. You are not only thinking. You have fought. 

Winning or losing, sometimes, is beyond control. But be grateful, you had a chance to fight.

Some people wanted it but was not granted. Appreciate.

Rmb that, even if your beyond fighting, it doesnt mean that u hv lost

But instead, think that perhaps, fate led you this way, 

You are meant to take a different route. 

Same or different destination, i do not know, i guess, you stil have a choice to choose the path ur legs want to walk.

Let me admit, many things i have joked wit you

But i didnt know u wil take me seriously

My dreams and visions, are complicated

Far too complicated that i can ever explain to you.

There are also many things i know, but i pretend i didnt.

You say u hv high IQ. So its up to ur guess, to see if u cn guess which is true and which is not XD

But who am i to judge or advice you

I am just another person in the ocean, unsure of my directions.

There's no true or false, no rights or wrongs,

Just different perceptions, from diff individuals.

Thats why you are you, and i am me

All the best in your future undertakings

And dont be snoopy =) 

July 14 20122 Hours 1134

Goodbye Serdang

Great memories for 4 years. Till we meet again