Happiness and Sadness

Happiness and sadness.

They are inseparable. Just like twins. 

No matter how far they may go, at the end of the day or the end of the story, 

they will meet one another again.

It is impossible for us to feel happy all the time. 

In the process of growing, we feel sad when we encounter problems

We feel sad when we are isolated or abandoned. We feel sad when we are hurt.

We feel sad when we fail. We feel sad when we are not capable. 

Even the richest man in the world may be unhappy at times

There are just too many unpredictable factors which can make us upset. 

Its a life cycle, unavoidable.

Thats why we are human beings. Be proud to be one. We are not robots. 

We are born with emotions, with the ability to feel. 

I believe, we should appreciate that we are born this way.

We learn to heal from wounds, and then, to protect ourselves so that we will not make the same fall again. 

Wounds are there to teach us, do not make the same mistake again bcz scars are forever.

However, do not be afraid to try. Bcz if a kid is scared to ride a bike after getting wounds, he will never learn how to ride a bicycle and travel miles on it. 

You tell me you dont want to be happy

Because after feeling happy, you will feel sad when someone leaves. 

I am sad to say, you dont have a choice on what to feel cz feelings are natural.

We are born with it. No running away. 

 You cant control who comes into your life, and you cant control when they will be leaving.

Nothing in life is forever. 

Even myself, I dont know where I will be in a year's time.

Learn to let go. If they are fated to be somewhere, should let them go. 

If they are fated to be around you, then thats a bonus. Its fate. 

They have their own roads to walk. A group of friends can't remain together forever in the same environment. Its part of growing up. Its sad, yes, but its reality. 

Cherish the memories, rmb, knowing and parting, are part of life.

You grow through them. Life is cruel. But its happening. And we know it. 

I dont know for sure, but 

I think your problem lies in, 

You are afraid of getting hurt. You fear the feeling of getting abandoned. 

Thats why when someone comes along, you are afraid to be happy. 

Because you are scared you will get hurt when they leave. 

In a way, you are trying to protect yourself by trying not to feel. 

But feelings are natural. 

When you cant reach a balance between what your head wants, and what your heart wants,

Thats when you start to think a lot. 

The head wants the best for the people you care for, but the heart cant let go. 

You are not protecting yourself this way. Instead, you are making yourself more sad. 

Head is rational, heart is always not. The head thinks, the heart feels.

Business people, uses their head more than their heart when making important decisions.

Soft people, uses their heart more than their head while making important decisions.

But that doesnt make soft people less smart than business people. 

They are both great people, on equal par. 

Being able to feel, doesnt make you weaker or less smart. 

In fact, these people are the ones who actually make the world goes round, through the passion and care they show to other people. 

No matter which side you belong to, consider that as your strong point, becz thats what makes you unique. 

Everyone has their own principles when they are doing something. 

There is no such things as standard law of living bcz everyone has diff expectations and diff ways of doing things. 

What you think is right, may be wrong to some people. 

We cant control what they think, but as long as we know what we are doing, its more than fine. 

Life is an empty sheet of paper, and its up to us how we want to live it. 

We are all travellers, racing against time 

To meet expectations, to live our dreams. 

There are always ups and downs in life.

Just like a wavelength graph, they actually contribute to the colours in our lives.

If everything is a flat graph, we will never be able to differentiate which is joy, and which is sadness. 

You will never learn how to laugh genuinely, bcz you will never have known the feeling of sadness. 

You will never learn how to appreciate the beauty of life, bcz you will never have experienced a storm.

You will never have known the happy feeling of eating an icecream after a bad day.

You will never have known the feeling of love with the people you care most being beside you after a bad day. 

Is this life you wanted? 

There is no guideline on how to live life.

There's no avoiding happiness and sadness.

Even best friends argue. Even lovers argue. Even family members argue. 

We can sit down and cry. It is okay to cry. Crying is not a sign of weakness. Its actually a strength in you bcz you know you stil care.

But after that, 

It is of utmost importance that we learn how to pick ourselves up.

Stand up from where we fall. 

The world is so big. There is an endless world of possibilities. If we are still alive. 

Alive- means having the ability to feel/ to think/ and of cz to breathe 

Stand up, dont fear getting hurt. 

Its life. We are born to walk this path. 

If we fear, we wil never grow. We will never learn. We will be trapped inside the world we created. 

Trapped under the shell we made. 

The world will not slow down jz cz one individual is thinking so much 

The world is there. Its up to us whether we want to grow along with it.

Or to stay back, and just spend time thinking thinking and thinking about a problem which has no turning back

Be brave. 

Dont be scared to be happy. Its our rights. No one can take that from us. Its all in the head, how we control our head and our heart. 

We have only one head and one heart. So dont let our head overrule the heart and vice versa. 

Dont be a robot bcz we are not. 

Appreciate life, and appreciate what we can do now while we are stil capable. 

Bcz after a period of time, when it is too late, there is no point regretting 

Time, waits for no one. 

Its time to sleep. Think la, snoopy. I dont know if this is the answer you are looking for,

But hope this helps you in finding your way forward.

Bcz only you yourself knows, 

What you actually want and what you are actually chasing. Kayyyyy

October 10 2012 Hours 2225