Hopes and Disappointments

Primary Treatment and Oil-Water Separator open on the table, and my hands fumbling on the keyboard for a blogpost..

FST 4914 tmr, wishing me luck, I really need plenty of it..

But i'm not here to talk about exams. I am here to talk about, hopes and disappointments.

Is it true that the more hopes you have, the more disappointments you will get?

And when you have no hopes, you will not get disappointments?

So wrong. Both statements.

The reasons we have more hopes is because we see more lights and solutions to an obstacle.

The more we see, the more effort we will put into achieving our dreams, making our hopes a reality, fighting for a reason, that is to survive.

Someone who has such strong wills will not get disappointed so easily as there is no end of path of a road, there is just a road not taken, which still remains an option..

There is no such thing as more disappoinments, its just a matter of how we see it, how and is it worth us placing our hopes upon.

As for the second statement, when there is no hope,there is no disappointments?

When there is no hope, when you wake up every morning, what will be the purpose of life?

There is no life without hope. There is no soul without hope. There are no dreams without hope. Life is empty. There isnt even the thrill of getting disappointments..

Its not a thrill, but its a part of life that somehow, we cant live without. And sometimes, we will appreciate this feeling after some time, because we cant learn if we have never felt disappointed before..

Hopes, and disappointments are closely related..

They are part and parcel of our life, just like feelings being a part of us, even the best people experience them, there's no running away, or avoiding them..

The only difference is the way we see it, the way we perceive things, the way we present our hopes and whether it is worth it..

Disappointments are unavoidable, but always remember, there is always the next round of hope as life goes on..

We live by admiration, hope and love, and these are our motivations.

=He does not hope to win, has already lost=

So shouldnt we hope for the best and do our best, whatever we can do?

At least we did something, we wont feel regretful, we wont feel guilty..

So all the best to you.. =D And all the best to me.. Its time to study, carrying a new hope..

Some fine quotes- ( Me too free hor? Haha) Ehem.. But have to say, they opened up my insights..

Hope sees the invisible, feels the intangible and achieves the impossible (Anon)

Never deprive someone of hope, as it may be all they have.. (Anon)

We must accept finite disappointment, but we must never lose infinite hope (Dr Martin Luther king Jr )

Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is never stop questioning (Albert Einstein)

Consult not your fears but your hopes and dreams. Think not about your frustrations but about your unfulfilled potential. Concern yourself not with what you tried and failed in, but with what is still possible for you to do (Pope john XX111)

But in the midst of hopes and disappointments, there is also the presence of the word called fear..

Is it a friend or foe?

Fear of failing, fear of rejections, fear of labels, fears of perceptions..

Another story, to be continued..

September 29 2010 Hours 1315