When a man and a woman fall in love. It's entirely because of their attitudes in life plus chemistry. From the standpoint of science when a man and a woman get together, the secretation of the enzyme phenylalanine in their bodies will increase. It makes you feel elated. It's a happy feeling. When the concentration keeps increasing, both person will be affected by this enzyme simultaneously. They will feel deeply in love. This state and relationship can be defined as love. (Adapted from the Mysteries of Love)
Now i know what defines love from the scientific view, I start to wonder. What defines a man.
To me, a man is someone who has targets and dreams, and also works hard to get what his heart seeks.
He is clear from the beginning, what he really wants. Ideas may change, plans may change to be more adaptable, but he must never lose his direction.
He is determined, he knows when he is right, when he is wrong, but most importantly, he must know when is the right time for everything, and also when to give in.
He needs to be caring, and sensitive to the thoughts of others, but not too vulnerable until he starts doing what people expects him to do until he lost his own stands.
He needs to have his principles well defined and always be flexible for changes to survive. He needs to be firm, but always respect the thoughts of others, being considerate.
He needs to be responsible for his words, and be true to his feelings. He uses his heart as much as he uses his brain. Both needs to be equal, for it has be meant this way that god gives us one heart and one brain, not more, not less.
Handsome-ness is only exterior, but the feelings inside, remains. The charm, the passion, the eyes, the look, stays.
And i think, that whats keep us going.
But not any longer.
July 22 2010, Hours 1448
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